If a woman is skimpily dressed, is she asking to be touched? Is it ok if a guy automatically grabs her without her permission? Both women and men feel differently about this issue and the answer still remains up in the air.
Many people say yes. If a girl is walking down the street in a mini dress or extra short shorts, with her breasts possibly exposed, she will obviously get attention from guys. Wearing that type of outfit can definitely provoke a man to touch. A man might feel that if she exposed herself in that manner, she obviously wanted the attention. For many doing the “grabbing”, it can be viewed as something positive: like seeing what you like and letting the object know that it is desired. But for the one getting grabbed, it can be very offensive and a violation. Many women also do not like the idea because they feel that the man is viewing them as a slut or a whore.
Even heterosexual females will do the occasional breast or butt grabbing to their girlfriends. We’ve all had that day when our butts looked good in our jeans and heard, “Omg Melissa, you actually have an ass in those jeans!” or maybe we’ve heard “Wow Zesty, your boobs actually don’t look like mosquito bites today!”
Most females can attest to these incidents occurring at least once in life. Many can also say that at least once they’ve felt uncomfortable or offended.
With all that being said, they are still many people that feel that no matter what, people are not justified to touch you in any way. Many feel that no matter what, men should always be gentlemen. Women should be able to wear whatever they want without worrying if they are going to be groped. And many girls do not want to hear stupid comments from their girlfriends either. Sometimes a girl wants to look good in peace! Hearing that yesterday their breasts didn’t look big enough or their butt didn’t look voluptuous enough as compared to today, is not really a compliment. Being smacked and grabbed by either woman or man doesn’t always make a girl feel attractive.
You tell me what you think and leave a comment below!
Monday, July 6, 2009
Ready...Set..GRAB!!!
Posted by By: Zesty at 4:11 PM
Labels: Breasts, butt, equality, Physical grabbing, public opinion
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2 Comments:
You ae free to wear what you like,but do it with class and respect. Women and men should fell loved but you have to love yourself first, some people think they can do what ever they want to people and that's not right. My husband use to do that i don't have a big butt but i'm chest heavy,and he use to have pictures of big butt girls on his pictures list on the computar would make me mad so my son would delete so now i just let him do.
I agree with both LKNGA68 and Anonymous but I do feel that some women bare themselves with hopes of being more than just touched. Many women are aware of their sexuality and love to flaunt their assets but choose to ignore the fact that it is difficult for many men to control their hormones. Many women feel safe knowing that they could wear what they want knowing that if they are sexually harassed by another, that person would be arrested or a large paycheck would land in their mailbox. I personally don't think ten thousand dollars would make 19-year-old Susie feel better after she was brutally raped in a revealing dress and can’t sleep without a nightmare or becomes diagnosed with PTSD. In this country, a woman has the right to wear pretty much whatever she wants but I think all women should be aware not to cross a certain sexual limit. For example (not tryna sound conceited but…), I have very long shapely legs, but I wouldn’t go out in short shorts or a mini skirt because I know I would receive unnecessary masculine attention. Ladies, wear what you want but do it with a little class and a lot of caution.
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